Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. Doctors aren't always the greatest finds. I have been married for 2 years now and I'm concerned that if we dont work something out soon, it will only get worse as he dives into his profession even further. Long story short, everyone is dead on. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. We are only engaged and as much as I love him, I can't handle the pain of watching my goals and dreams wash away to be at his disposal.
I think a lot of what you say here really rings true, especially the part about the Date Night. I am a doctors wife. We have discussed marriage and kids but I dont want to live a life of lonliness I'm responding to the comment on April 11, - I posted on April 3, Sounds like you are going through my same fears and concerns. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. Warnings While the LDS Church accepts that those who feel attraction to members of their own sex can be Mormons, it discourages acting on those feelings.
As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. I just feel relieved that there are others of you out there in the same boat as me. I married a person, not a religion. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. Fortunately most of my immediate family has done better.
You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. What she taught is different from what the essays admit happened. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. I would need to ask my husband again. I think I handle the lonliness a little better than most because I was an only child and like having my alone time. Now we go out to eat or to watch a play or do something together about once every week or two, which is a nice change compared to once a year. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. He sees all families being able to stay together. There are many professions that leave the spouse carrying the bulk of every day family life. Now that I am trying to MCAT study for at least 2 hours a day the pressure to find time together is really high.